Gay Slang Dictionary

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D level dirt
colloq.
Information not shared with another gay person, either because he talks too much or always gets the information screwed up.
D-up
colloq.
To defecate ["Man I need to D-up."]'
Source: [1990's]
da bomb
colloq.
Excellent.
daddy-type
  1. colloq.
    A person who prefers relatively younger sex or courtship partners.
  2. Older man who shows affection for his male lover with gifts.
    See also: sugar daddy
daddy/boy relationship
  1. n.
    Intergenerational relationships, a relationship where one person prefers a love partner much older than himself or herself, and the other person prefers a love partner much younger.

    For more infor: Male Intergenerational Intimacy (1991) edited by Theo Sandfort, Ph.D.; Edward Brogersma, JD; and Alex van Naerssen, Ph.D.

  2. In the S/M and leather community, the term "boy" usually translates into "bottom." "Bottom," in anal intercourse the man who penetrated, the term has no relationship to the age of the person, it is not uncommon for a boy in the relationship to be older than his partner. A top "sons" could be old enough to be parther his father.
  3. A lover that have been was legally adopted by his older lover, daddy, complete with all legal benefits, this is away around the ban on gay marriage. And, is well-used by the gay committee http://www.q.co.za/news/1999/9910/991011-sextalk.html
daddy
  1. n.
    Older man who shows affection for his male lover with gifts.
    See also: sugar daddy
  2. An old inmate that takes a young male as his punk, acts as the boys bodyguard, keeping the other inmates from him, and he is the master of the boy. The boy is his sex slave.
    See also: [prison sl]
  3. A male lover.
  4. A man who likes a young lover to whom he plays a fatherly role. It can imply spanking or other discipline.
dairy queen
colloq.
Black or Hispanic who is interested only in white men as sexual partners, especially blondes or pale-skinned men.
Source: [late 1980's]
daisy chain
colloq.
Group sex; a sexual act shared by more than two people at the same time in the same place. [he likes get fucked in a daisy chain.].
daisy
  1. n.
    A male homosexual.
  2. A weak effeminate.
  3. A cowardly man.
    See also: sissy, wimp
  4. A person that is wonderful or remarkable.
    Source: [middle 1700's]
dancing in the sheets
colloq.
Having sex. This term was made famous by the 1985 video "Dancing in the Sheets" which starred Mick Jagger and David Bowie

[definition correction] {The phrase is incorrectly stated as a David Bowie/Mick Jagger song. They song they sang was "Dancing in the STREETS" which was a remake of the 1960's song by Martha Reeves and the Vandelles. The group that sang.

"Dancing in the SHEETS" was the group Shalamar around 1985-86. Subbmitted by Stephanie Bizzle 02-05-2002 Indianapolis, IN USA.

dancing with myself
colloq.
Masturbating. This term made famous by Billy Idol in 1981 with the song "Dancing with Myself." The songs condemned as promoting masturbation , by religious right.
dangle queen
  1. colloq.
    Homosexual that wears long, gangling earrings.
    Source: [kwn SF 72]
  2. A man who shows off his crotch and cock contours by wearing tight trousers.
  3. Gay exhibitionist.
dangler
  1. colloq.
    Having more than seven inches of cock.
  2. Long-hanging earrings.
  3. A hustler, who shows off his crotch and cock contours by wearing tight trousers.
dangles
n.
Long-hanging earrings.
Dark-room
  1. colloq.
    The rectal opening; the anus.
  2. An orgy room in a bar, bathhouse, or toilet. A dark room designated for sex in clubs or bars.
  3. A theater where men go for sex.
darkstar
n.
Asshole.
dass
n.
Pomo word for man-woman, homosexual [his body is a man but his spirit is a woman.].
date
  1. n.
    To have sex with a male prostitute.
  2. Any prostitutes customer. synonym john; pay for play "date".
  3. An engagement with someone.
Daughters of Bilitis
p.noun
An organization for lesbians founded in San Francisco by four lesbian couples, on September 21, 1955. Led by Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin.
dead ringer
colloq.
A person who is the exact duplicate of a another. [He was a dead ringer of my exlover.].
Source: [early 1900's]
deadeye
adj.
The anus.
deadeye dick
colloq.
In anal intercourse the man who fucks, as opposed to the one who is fucked. [you need to keep a eye on him is is a deadeye dick, and will fuck you as soon as he can.].
dead
adj.
Very, extremely.[ David was drop dead gorgeous].
Dear John
colloq.
A letter, terminating a relationship.
debut
  1. colloq.
    To become an acknowledged homosexual.
  2. To become aware of one's own homosexuality.
  3. First homosexual act. [you say that hot boy hasn't made his debut yet.].
decorated by Cost Plus
colloq.
A style of decorating with unmatched colors and or mass-produced.
decoy(er)
  1. n.
    Attractive, young man or boy, use by the police to entrap gay men into performing an act sex in a public.
  2. Attractive, young man or boy, use by the criminal element to entrap gay men into performing an act of sex to blackmail them.
  3. Attractive, young man or boy, used by the gay bashers to trap gay men so they can beat them up.
decoys
n.
Vice squad that works the washrooms, to entice gays into sex; or work behind two way mirrors to arrests the guy having sex.
decoy
  1. n.
    Attractive, young man or boy, used by the police to entrap, gay men into performing an act sex in a public.
  2. Attractive, young man or boy, use by the criminal element to entrap gay men into performing an act of sex to blackmail them.
  3. Attractive, young man or boy, use by the gay bashers to trap gay men so they could beat them up.
  4. A dildo worn in the pants by a homosexual, to give the appearance of a larger cock.
deep kiss
colloq.
The act of kissing passionately, open mouthed kissing.